I have talked to thousands of women about their sex lives and I have seen it all - the great, the mediocre, and unfulfilled and unsatisfied. But the most surprising thing is that most guys are completely unaware of how they stack up in the bedroom.  So how big of a deal is it anyway? And how do you know where you stack up? Let me tell you something...it is a HUGE deal! Women crave sex far more than men. If you don't believe me, then you are not giving her good sex period.The difference is that women only want good sex. As a guy, you can have pretty mediocre sex and still finish. And even if the sex is phenomenal, most of the time you are still only going to finish once. Women on the other hand , usually don't  finish at all form mediocre and no matter how "close" she tells you she was , or how good she tells you it was, if she's not "getting there", she is disappointed.
    And if it happens regularly we actually start to resent it , and even start to resent you for not learning how to do it right. But from great sex a women can easily finish 3,5 or even 10 times. The difference between amazing and just ok sex is not nearly as significant for guys as it is for girls. And here's something else you should know.Guys that can give us Amazing sex are few and far between.